Simple Ways to Speak The Love Language Of Words Of Affirmation From A Romance Coach
If two people are speaking different languages, communication can be difficult. This is true in marriages as well! We each receive and give love in our marriage in different languages as well! I love Gary Chapman's Book The Five Love Languages ™ , where he describes the 5 basic Love Languages Physical Touch, Gifts, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and acts of service. I personally think there is one more and that is romantic gestures.:)
I get it-It is not always easy to learn or speak a different language. Learning how to speak your spouse's Love Language is hard as well, especially when it does not come naturally. The truth is being able to speak each other's love language is vital to having deep connection and love in your marriage.
As a marriage coach, I love to help couples reconnect and find deeper love with in their marriage.
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This blog post will focus on the love language of Words of Affirmation:
People who have Words of Affirmation as their Love Language feel loved most through uplifting and appreciative and encouraging words!
Here are 10 Easy and Fun ways to show more Words of Affirmation
Have your spouse over hear a conversation where you turn someone else down to spend time with them ( you could have a buddy call or something)
Wednesday Words of Affirmation Tip: Leave your hubby a note with candy that he loves with thoughtful and flirty sayings on them! They will get double treated with kinds words and a yummy treat!
Loving look into your spouse eyes and give them a genuine compliment about something you admire about them or that you have noticed
Romantic Tip: Make it a point to tell your husband how much you appreciate him and for what you specifically appreciate about him. Be sincere and genuine!
Find a creative way to express your love or tell your spouse that you love them. You could write this in the snow or sand, or with the kids blocks or magnets on the fridge any unique way would work!
Send them a encouraging or sweet texts throughout the day! Plan it out and schedule them~
Write a sweet love note for your sweetheart and the love notes with nice things about them to find- like on their pillow and in the car!
Pull your spouse close and ask them what is their hardest challenge right now? Really listen to them and ask follow up questions, and encourage them in their trial!
When you are with a group of friends or family give your spouse loving compliments and standup for them if others are putting them down. This means a lot to your spouse whose love languages is words of affirmation!
Find a way to surprise your spouse with a cute photo of the two of you or your favorite photo of your spouse and find a way to caption/meme your favorite photo with kind words on it like- I am so lucky to married to such a talented and beautiful gal/handsome guy... put it as their wallpaper/background on their phone so the next time they pick it up they will be surprise to see the photo and the sweet message form you.
Make sure you are noticing and appreciating your spouse and telling them thank you for all they do! This means the world to someone whose love language is Words of Affirmatio Tips! Everyone loves to feel noticed and appreciated for their work or service!
I hope you have gotten some value from these ways to speak your spouse's Love Language of Words of Affirmation Tips!
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